Add first six ingredients to a saucepan and bring to a slow boil. Watch closely to prevent from boiling over. Once at a slow boil, slowly stir in grits and reduce heat. Let cook for five minutes over low heat, stirring occasionally. Then slowly stir in shredded cheese until smooth. Turn off heat and add jalapeno and crawfish and then cool. Lightly dust with flour and make into small flap jacks. Add oil to a medium sauté pan and cook both sides just until brown. Remove from pan and drizzle with Horsey Sauce.